It is close to impossible to find someone in this world who has not suffered from some or the other kind of loss and grief, but living with the sense of loss or grief all the time is disrespect to life; the beautiful gift of nature. Loss, grief, birth, joy, all are part and parcel of life and as a human being we all have to experience it at some stage of life. Everybody grief at the loss and comes to terms with it over times.
Although you cannot get over the loss and grief altogether, but the pain of grieving becomes softer with the passage of time. The more you are attached to the person or thing that you lost, the more pain you feel and the more time it would take to get over the loss. Taking some time to grief is good for your emotional well-being, but you should be kind enough to yourself to get over the loss at the earliest so that you would be able to move with the flow of life.
There is no fixed time-frame to get over the loss and grief for everyone as the gravity of pain varies for each one. But if it makes you suffer for a longer period of time, you need to address it. You just have to speed up the process of getting over the grief so that you start to make use of your capabilities at the earliest to upgrade your lifestyle and be the worthy member of your family and society at large.
As the pain of loss varies from person to person, so is the ways to get over the grief. There is no quick fix way suitable to everyone and in every situation to get over the loss and grief. It is best to deal with the grief in whichever ways feel most comfortable to you. Here are some of the ways that may help you to get over loss and grief smoothly and early:
1) REALIZE GRIEF SPARE NO ONE